June 29, 2007

How did I get so lucky?















The Hardest part of my volunteer job at the Dixie Bloor Neighbourhood Center, was having to leave it...

When people think of the random things that happen to me, they often see it as bad luck and sometimes it is but this time it was more than I could have wanted.
I found the Dixie Bloor Neighbourhood Center completely by chance. I had just arrived home from Carleton and I was looking for a summer job. I walked into a building which I knew housed a law firm and I saw on the Directory A sign for the Dixie Bloor Neighbourhood Center, I had never heard of it before. Wondering whether they would give me a job a walked into their office and asked if they were hiring for the summer. I was informed that they were not but that they were always accepting volunteers and then directed me to a job board which was two feet behind me. I was intrigued. I went back to the reception and asked what exactly they did at the center, and the lady said that they provided assistance in various ways to knew immigrants. This sounded right up my alley and the next thing I knew I had offered to volunteer for them, knowing nothing about the organization I was given an interview with the volunteer coordinator the following Monday.
So on that Monday I arrived bright eyed at the center having read over the information I had been given. The forms I filled out has asked me what kind of volunteer work I wanted to do and I had decided on settlement. Hazel then interviewed me and welcomed me aboard, I was asked to start volunteering the next day.
When I arrived Tuesday morning, a past intern was asked to show me around and introduce me to people and I soon discovered that the organization was not the one office I had originally thought but three in the same building, plus additional offices which were located all in the general area. I was astounded! How had I not known that this organization existed when it was so large and far reaching?
I was then introduced to Jasbir the Urdu/Punjabi/Hindi settlement worker who I would be volunteering for. She started off by asking me simple questions, about where I went to school and what I liked to do, I learned a little bit about her and realized that we were going to get along grandly, and we did.
Over the past two months I did a lot of work at the DBNC, I researched and prepared informative documents on legal issues, I even gave a presentation to most of the settlement staff about the human rights structures internationally, in Canada and in Ontario. I also had the opportunity to try my hand at some general office jobs, like filing, photocopying and faxing, experiences which I needed.
But the most rewarding part of the experience was not the work that I did or the ways that I helped, it was the people who I met. I have never been part of such a warm and welcoming environment. The people working at the center are tolerant and patient and they always love to talk. Since they're immigrants themselves they have all kinds of stories to share about different parts of the World and it was a really wonderful learning experience.
Today was my last day and all I could do was try my best not to cry. Tomorrow is Jasbir's Birthday and I brought her a cake (which is often the practice at the DBNC for peoples birthdays) to surprise her. After we sang Happy Birthday, I recieved a surprise of my own which included a memento and a touching card by signed by all of the settlement staff. Before I left I recieved at least one hug from almost everyone. I have honestly never felt so appreciated in all of my years of volunteering or even working! But unfortunately I had to leave for a new job... But never fear I've already planned several return visits and sporadic volunteering with the Center so they aren't done with me yet.

It was fate that brought me their, and now all I can ask is how did I get so lucky?

June 7, 2007

Questions

Anyone who knows me knows that I ask a lot of questions. Questions about other people, questions about me, questions about life. People have this tendency to tell me their life stories, I'm not sure why, maybe its the questions, but ever since I started working at my volunteer job at DBNC I've been hearing a lot more life stories. Just unbelievable stuff that you couldn't imagine would happen in Canada or sometimes even in the whole World. This has raised some more questions inside me, which I think are a little more urgent than the regular ones. I'm not looking for answers, I guess I'm just putting them out there for everyone to think about. They aren't exactly new or creative, just some things I've been thinking about. So I guess with that having been said... here they are:

1. When so many bad things happen in the World, how is it that people are still generally happy?

2. What makes the life of someone in a developed country who is fighting a disease any more important than a person in a developing country fighting that same disease?

3. Why do we assume that Western Doctors are more highly qualified than Doctors from other parts of the World where they have to do more with less?

4. Why do people assume things at all?

5. Why would a person choose to hurt another person?

6. What is it about religion that is so explosive?

7. If people want to be tolerated why don't they tolerate others?

8. Why do some many taxi drivers have Phd.s and why are so many World leaders idiots?

9. How can someone judge someone else based on the colour of their skin?

10. With 6 billion people in the World, how did everyone become so inter-connected?

11. Why do people focus more on what divides us than what binds us?

12. How did the air conditioner on my GO bus manage to catch on fire when the air conditioner was off?

13. Can science and religion co-exist?

14. why don't more people as questions?

15. Why do people always want what they can't have?

16. How can I still have more questions?